Soul Mate Search Date: Jan 6, 2009 3:11:20 AM PST Author: Shakanah I've had visions for quite some time now about a man. Sometimes I can see him but most of the time I feel his presence. If I watch the world for confirmation of when I will meet him, all of my friends have just fallen in love, all 4 of them, so with all that good energy around me, it should happen for me soon too. It's not that I'm not attractive, I have very high standards and just can't seem to find someone at the same consciousness level as myself. I did find one last night and we talked for hours. I already knew he was gay but it was so inspiring to talk so deeply about beliefs and theories. I can't complain, his whole meditation group is going to do my rebirthing and he is putting me in touch with someone who can design a website for me. So much good came of it. When I feel my soulmate, he makes good things happen for me too, brings out the best in me. I recently wrote a book called Mirror To Mirror that is a pre-lude to the rebirthing so I guess what I'm looking for is the perfect mirror reflection of myself. Wish me luck. Last modified by Shakanah on Jan 6 2009 3:13AM Attachment: b644c27be7635eefbe7e2ffb8496a4b0.jpg    View Description: Before The Ball Reply to this Post

High standards Date: Jan 7, 2009 4:17:07 AM PST Author: scienceofsoulmates Hi Shakanah, Thanks for the post. It is great that you can feel someone out there. I understand how difficult it can be to find someone at your level of awareness. There are few of us awake, but the numbers are growing. The internet is an excellent place to find them. I believe your standards are not high, more that most peoples are low, or rather they have not had the opportunity to find themselves and therefore one size fits all. "the perfect mirror reflection of myself", I agree, and so do many others such as Carl Jung who said, (loosly paraphrased) "it is sadly true that it often the case that opposites attract for compensation, then conflicts develop leading to separation." Good luck out there! Last modified by scienceofsoulmates on Jan 7 2009 4:19AM   Reply to this Post

High standards Date: Jan 7, 2009 4:41:48 PM PST Author: Shakanah Originally Posted by scienceofsoulmates: Hi Shakanah, Thanks for the post. It is great that you can feel someone out there. I understand how difficult it can be to find someone at your level of awareness. There are few of us awake, but the numbers are growing. The internet is an excellent place to find them. I believe your standards are not high, more that most peoples are low, or rather they have not had the opportunity to find themselves and therefore one size fits all. "the perfect mirror reflection of myself", I agree, and so do many others such as Carl Jung who said, (loosly paraphrased) "it is sadly true that it often the case that opposites attract for compensation, then conflicts develop leading to separation." Good luck out there! Hi, thanks for your reply. I guess I should have been a bit clearer with what I meant by high standards. What I meant was that for many years I allowed myself to become attached to "compensatory" relationships, as you mentioned, and found I kept outgrowing them because they didn't evolve past the complacency/fear phase. The man that I have seen in visions, I feel connected to through the power of our minds. It feels mutual and I can feel him pulling me to him. In my book, which is yet unpublished, I wrote about the masculine and feminine energies, represented by the lower and upper chakras, need to meet at the heart, the center and become one energy and maybe this is what is causing my visions, my own masculine and feminine energies meeting and becoming one, I'm not sure. I have met other spiritual people but it seems very rare that I meet people who are willing to open up and talk on the depth of conversation that I find comes so easily. After writing my 2nd book, I put together a hypnosis cd on rebirthing, (recreating the womb experience to eliminate self defeating neural pathways that were first created there)and since completing it, my life has begun massive personal changes and growth and I feel I have released much of the patterns of my past. I'm looking forward to the new, but not sure what to expect. I think it has been this process that has allowed me to see this new life that seems to be coming for me, one where this man and I can be completly one on every level. I have also seen visions for years of a healing center down the coast in a place called Wollongong, I have the building I want, the staff have presented themselves to me, the services are all clear, and the structure of the business is apparent. I have no doubt that all of this is about to take place, but I'm not sure how yet. By the way, your site is amazing and when I can, I am going to buy your book as it sounds like something I could really relate to. You certainly do have a way with words, and I can see the spirit of creativity flows abundantly through you. Attachment: 3fffb7b462490ac499446df9ddef22a5.jpg    View Description: Before the Ball Reply to this Post

dating sites Date: Jan 30, 2009 7:18:46 PM PST Author: Laura I have never cared for anything that "catered to the masses". Maybe that's just a personal preference, being a solitary sort of soul. (I tend to try to avoid mass anything as much as possible.) As for the dating sites, I have always avoided those, as well, mainly because it feels too contrived... unnatural. I guess this statement could serve to launch us into a discussion on fate versus free choice. (Oh, so this is why I started writing about fate! I just wrote a whole page on fate or free choice and came in here to post it, only to find there was no discussion prompt for it. I probably started thinking about this response, and got off on a tangent about fate. LOL! Good grief. Hey, it's Fried-day... that's my excuse. My brain is fried.) Anyhoo... I have never joined one of those dating sites (nor would I ever) because of the artificiality of it. Maybe I am truly a fatalist, eh? I have always believed that when "he" (or "she", if in another lifetime) will come, it will happen in a more natural way than a "dating site". Maybe that works for some people, and maybe that's fate's way of operating for some people who like that sort of thing. I can see how it could be an avenue for someone else. I know that personally, though, it feels very uncomfortable for me, so it's not my avenue... it's not my "fate". I have also noticed that some people seem more "driven" to find someone, always in such a hurry. Some people seem to "need" to be with a partner all the time. I can't relate to this. I just don't feel that drive. It would be wonderful to find that soul that is my mirror, that one other soul in the universe that truly understands me because they are the same (finally someone that understands me! LOL).. but I don't feel "driven". Maybe it's because I know they are there anyway and they are never going away, and I'm okay with that, just having that knowledge. Maybe it's because I understand it will happen when it's time, and I'm okay with that, too. I am fine by myself, but again, that's my soul's nature. I guess I'm just okay with the spiritual connection, and the physical has sort of taken a back seat at this point in my life. Does this make any sense? Anyway, I've realized the probability that, with my lifestyle habit of being a loner (anti-social butterfly..lol!), coupled with all the other factors, it probably means I'm meant to be alone now... if not for the rest of this lifetime, at least for now. I'm actually pretty comfortable with that option, to be honest. Oh well.. lol... be true to thine self, eh? When it's meant to be, it will be. Oh, and by the way... not sure if this is the right topic for this comment... but, yes, my "soulmate" visited me in a dream about 5 years or so ago. It's something I will never forget, and it's really beyond words. There was a purpose to the visit, though. It was to remind me of that feeling I had forgotten existed. (Forgotten... or maybe given up on. ? ) On a side note, that reminds me of what that little 11-year-old boy, Brendan Foster (a beautiful soul!), who died of cancer recently, said in his last days when the interviewer asked him what makes him sad. As a tear rolled down his cheek, he replied, "When people give up." The enormity of meaning of that simple little statement just hits me in the heart!   Reply to this Post